It is really a big handicap to be born as a third sex human and grow into a transsexual. Who is a transsexual? A person who possesses both male organ and breasts but feels like a woman and in some instances a man.

What a big physical handicap? When they grow up and start showing feminine qualities they are often criticized by every one. It is miserable when their parents, relatives, and friends hate them and start to avoid them.

In India many transwomen have to leave their homes at one stage. They become helpless. Therefore, they are quite often pushed into prostitution. Their personal life really becomes a big question mark.






What is the solution to this problem?

The Government should recognize them as the third sex. They should be considered as physically handicapped and given some concessions and facilities to shape their lives.

The government should open separate schools and colleges for them and give a decent education free of cost. They should be placed in good jobs after they complete their studies. They can work in fields such as catering, receptionist, tailoring, fashion design etc.

They should be given free treatment if they wish to change their sex with surgery. They should be treated like the other two sexes by the society.

Let us learn to respect them and support them. After all it is not their mistake to be born like that, is it not?

A special person

by vijayanths | 6:05 AM in | comments (0)


Sometimes you find a special person

Who changes your life a lot
And let you change his/her life too

Someone who we want to make laugh
Until she/he cant stop

Someone who makes you believe
The world is so good and beautiful

Someone you want to walk along
The seashore with hands joined

Someone you want to listen your
Favorite music with

Someone you want to enjoy the
Nature’s scenery with

Someone you want to dance with,
Tell about your past life,

Someone you want to share
Your good and bad

Someone you can hug and
Shed your tears off

Someone whom you can
Rely on totally forever

Someone who will be your whole world
And whom you want to live for

I am glad I found out my special person
It is you my dear, who else?

If you live to be 100 I want to live

To enjoy this wonderful life in full
In this beautiful world with your love.




( Here is an interesting short story about honesty for you)

He was a highly talented young man with multifaceted skills. Once he was badly in need of a job and approached a rich man who offered him a job as a chauffeur. He asked the young man to come to his home to take up duties. At the time, the rich man was about to sell his old car that had started to give more problems day by day.

When the young man reached the rich man’s home, he found him negotiating with a prospective buyer.

The buyer said, “If you could drive me home in this car without a breakdown, I will buy it”. The rich man turned to the young man and told him, “Hey, here is your opportunity, if you could drive him home without a breakdown, you will get a commission and a job here.” He agreed to the deal and somehow managed to take the buyer to his home as required by his condition. The buyer was amazed by his skill and just could not believe it.


He said, “hey, young man tell me honestly whether this car has serious problems or not?”

The young man hesitated for a minute and told him that it had problems. He knew he might lose his commission and an opportunity to get a job, which he was very much in need at the time, yet he spoke the truth to the buyer. The buyer was so moved by his honesty that not only did he compensate him with the commission, he offered him a job in his company as well.


This was the very same young man who later on, rose to become the financial advisor to the Government of the United States of America. He was none other than the great Paul Hoffman. The value of honesty was recognized by the rich man.

Honesty pays





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Hope you have really enjoyed the short story about honesty,thanks for reading.


Child sex in India

by vijayanths | 4:46 AM in | comments (0)


When India is developing in many aspects such as technology, economy etc there are a few dirty things that defame our country’s reputation. One such thing is child sex. Female children are made to indulge in sex without their consent.

.It is so painful to note some female children from a few backward villages of Andhra Pradesh and other backward states become the victims of child sex.

The sex criminals make false promises to the parents that they would get housemaid job in Mumbai for these young girls. They sell the virgin girls to brothel owners in Mumbai. The innocent girls are forced to have sex with their customers.

Many rich men are willing to give a big amount to have sex with virgin girls. Therefore, they stitch the vagina for a few times and sell the girl as virgin at very high rates. How horrible and miserable?

The Government should bring awareness among the poor people in the backward areas about this crime. These sex criminals should be given very severe punishments so that others will have fear to do this crime in future.

The Government should try to give adequate employment to all the people in backward areas and eradicate poverty.

Let us work together to abolish child sex completely from our beautiful country.

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Anger,a silent suicide?

by vijayanths | 7:29 AM in | comments (0)


What is anger? It is an immature emotional action. We usually get anger on the persons whom we interact in the daily life. If a person acts something, which is not tolerable by us, we lose our temper.

When we are angry, our body experiences big changes. Our heart beat rises along with the blood pressure. Our nervous system is totally upset. The efficiency of our brain reduces considerably.Therfore the brain is not able to think about the consequences. Frequent anger affects the heart in the long run.

Anger brings us only losses in life. You may lose a good friend, a lover, a colleague or even assets.

How to avoid anger? We have to understand that it is not possible to expect every one to behave as per our wish. Every one is different with different views and different habits. We have to learn to live with all sorts of people in all kinds of environments. Learn to be calm, how bad the situation may be.

World will not go around as per our wish, but we have to learn and live according to the rotation of the world. Do not have too much of targets and goals beyond your capacity. Do not expect perfection in all the people around you. Learn to get what you want from them in a tactful and amicable way.

You may practice pranayama, yoga and meditation. A soothing music will help to calm the mind.

Do not think angry men are brave but surprisingly it is the calm persons who are able to manage any difficult situations without losing the temper are the real brave ones.

However, we can appear to be angry in certain matters to get positive results (A mother’s anger on her child to do home work)

Frequent anger will definitely affect the heart and the life span.

Anger, a silent suicide?

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Ho,God,What is life?

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God created the donkey and said, ”you can live 50 years in this world” .But the donkey answered,’50 years is too much for me, so give me only 20 years, please’ .So the God granted his wish.

Then he created the dog and offered 30 years of life .But dog did not want to live so long and hence asked for 15 years only. Therefore, God granted his wish too.

Then he created the monkey and offered 20 years to him. However, the monkey wanted only 10 years and the wish was granted.

Finally he created man and offered him a life span of 20 years. Man quickly responded,”my lord,20 years a very little to me. So please give me the 30 years that the donkey refused, the 15 years the dog did not want and the 10 years the monkey refused”. God granted man’s wish.

That is why man lives 20 years as a man.
Then he marries, gives life to a woman (what a sacrifice), and starts to carry all the burdens like a donkey for 30 years.
Then he lives 15 years like a dog taking care of the house eating whatever given to him. He barks for small things also.
Then he retires and lives 10 years as monkey going from house to house and from one son or daughter to another doing tricks to amuse his grand children.

This is life, is not it?

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Worry Management

by vijayanths | 6:03 AM in | comments (0)




Managing worry is a very important art of living. Worry can affect your health and your ability to think effectively.

There are four types of worries.

1. Ignorable worries: There are a few worries, which we can simply ignore. If the old people in our family always find fault in our actions and scold us often, we just have to ignore this type of worry. Similarly, a grown up son may have to ignore a dad who is always scolding him.

2. Worries to be solved immediately: If you have a health problem, it has to be attended to at once. Postponing out of fear will result in more complications after.

3. Worries to be postponed; There are certain worries for which the best solution is postponement. You have a son who has all qualifications to get a decent job and he is yet to get one. It is a worry of course but you simply have to postpone such worry, as this temporary problem will be solved automatically after a period. Similarly, you may have an eligible daughter whose marriage is delayed.

4. The worries, which we have to experience: There are some problems, which we have to face, as there is no other go except to face it. You may meet with an accident and have a fracture in your bones which you have to face boldly until you are recovered. An unexpected death of close relative, accidents, natural calamities and any other unexpected losses bring us worries that we have to face bravely to our fullest capacity.

Lastly, I want to tell about the fear of death. When a child is born, only one thing is certain, that it will die one day. When millions and millions of people had died in this wonderful world already, why not we die? Do not worry; you will soon be born again to live in this beautiful world.

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