Those who are born on 8th/17th/26th are called the no 8 people.

Natives are governed by Saturn. It is difficult to understand their character. They may behave strangely sometimes. Therefore they may appear ruthless and merciless. But they are truly good people. They always have the desire to help others. They want to help those who are really in need.

They should be careful that they don’t help cheating persons. They may be attracted towards such people. If somebody cheats them, they will get highly distressed. They will try to take revenge till the end. They can’t forget those who harm them. They will wait to avenge them. Similarly they won’t forget those who helped them. They will wait for the chance to help them. They are like judges. They will definitely want to punish those who err.



They give respect to elders, the educated and intelligent people. Generally they want to live in peace. But life will not let them live so. They will get into some problems or other many times in life. They are not cowards. They don’t like fights, yet they will not give up a fight until they win .If their friends and relatives fight, they will go forward and pacify them. They will achieve what they want. For that they will pay any cost. They want to succeed well in life. They will make continuous efforts for it though success does not come to them that easily.

Sudden fall in life is inevitable though they will mange it and come back again with their sheer hard work. Their success will be great, just like their failures too, very big. If important events take place in the years 4, 8, 13, 17, 22, 26 and 31, it will be too miserable years for them. They will not hesitate to work hard. They will be happy to do so. If they get involved in work, they will do it with interest and perfection. They want to achieve a lot in life though they can only achieve a little. Some of his efforts will be stopped halfway.

Generally they love arts. They often face financial difficulties. However they will manage it somehow. Their later part (half) will be more successful. They may live with all comforts after middle age. Nervous weakness, skin problems and stomach pains may bother them, even indigestion. They can shine well in industries related to coal, iron, and building materials. They may even earn well in archeology and agriculture. They will have a happy and peaceful married life.

They will get a good spouse. Their children will be good. Their mind is full of loving feelings. But their efforts of love always end in failures. They won’t bother much about it. Those born on 8th January, 17th, 26th January, 8th, 17th February and 26th December are luckier. The will be blessed with greater fortunes. Lucky stone is blue sapphire. Black is their lucky color.

Lucky days, 1, 3, 5, 6, 10, 12, 14, 15, 19, 21, 23, 24, 28 and 30 are unlucky days. The years 4, 8, 13, 17, 22, 26 and 31, and 8, 17, 26, 35, 44, 53, 62,71,80,89 are unforgettable years in their lives. Favorable directions are south and south east. Most of them are of average height. They look dark and very rarely fair. They often have Wide eye brows, Sharp eyes, and Tough hard hair. Strong hands but thin legs. The specialties of these 8 people are, if they are successful it will be a very big success. Similarly are the failures.



ALL ABOUT NO 1 PEOPLE

During the period of dating and a few years of marriage you think you are in real love with your partner. You think that you are both made for each other and that you are the perfect couple in the world. After a few years have gone by, you may have children by then and become more responsible and sensible. Nevertheless something is missing. Yes, the spark of love has disappeared. Why?

Real love means living for each other without any expectations from him/her. But in real life there seems to be no real love. We soon get attracted to physical elements and other social factors and chase after financial status, character building, and education and so on.

However after years have gone by after marriage you come to realize that your partner is not living up to your expectations.

There is yet another selfish factor which affects a relationship. We expect our partner to be the perfect person, though we do not try to be perfect ourselves.

There was a man who wanted to marry a perfect woman. He went in search of her from east to west and north and south across his country until he was seventy years old.

One of his friends asked him whether he did not meet his perfect woman all these years. He told him that he saw a perfect woman only once. His friend instantly asked him why he did not marry her then. He replied, “She wanted to marry a perfect man”

If you are successful in finding real love with your spouse then you can extend this love to your children, relatives, friends, other people, animals, plants and finally the Universe, that is God.

So, my dear friends, its quite simple, cultivate a close relationship with your spouse and share real love for it is the first step to reach God.

CAN A LOVE LAST FOR A LIFE TIME

We often hear people say,” If I had not married I will be happy now.” Every coin has two sides. There are some plus points and some minus points for everything.


But how long can you be happy with this freedom? How long can you go to the bar and drink? Or have some other fun? The more fun you have the more dissatisfaction or worry you will get after the so-called fun. Eventually you will feel like living in a vacuum.

Marriage of course means more responsibilities and burdens. Yes, it is true. You may be worried when your child runs a high temperature. You may find it difficult to raise funds for your children’s education. You may have to work hard to give them good education. You will have to help them find a good job. You will have to get them married to suitable life partners. In a married life, you have love, care, responsibilities and above all peace and happiness.

Therefore, dear bachelor friends, I suggest you to make a mistake, a sweet mistake called marriage, but only once. OK?

We should have ambitious dreams for great things right from the start of our life in school. Wait, I am not going to ask you to dream about your lover in this article. Such dreams will follow naturally during your youth, with out any help from anyone.

Dream here means your aim in life. We definitely should have some dreams in life.

You may dream to become a software engineer, a doctor, a political leader or any other personality of your choice. It is a MUST. If you start to travel
without deciding on your destination, where will you go? Nowhere?

Therefore, dear friends, let us start to dream if you have not already embarked on this journey. That is the first step to success. Then you should develop a killer attitude to attain your goal. The flaming will to succeed should be burning within you. No matter what, it should be a great flame, which cannot be easily put off. Sometimes great people acquired this killer attitude after being insulted by someone in their lives.

You should acquire as much knowledge as possible, in the department you want to achieve. This will boost your confidence in a big way. Then you will need lots of determination, and hard work, with your sights set to achieving this goal.

You will love your work, and hence will never feel tired working, maybe even harder than others do. You will never give up until success embraces you one day. Achieving success should be your motivation.

Most of us simply waste our precious time without an aim and a killer attitude. We need to wake up from our ignorance as early as possible, motivate ourselves to follow our goals in life.



So, dear friends, let us dream to wake up from the sleep of ignorance and push ourselves ahead to achieve our purpose in life. All other things will automatically fall in place.

Once, there was a fisherman who lived in a small village close to a big river, where he used to fish every morning. As usual he went to the river one day, very early in the morning, much before dawn (he did not have a watch to know the time). Sitting on a rock, he waited for the sun to rise to start his day fishing. Moving his feet around, to get comfortable, he felt something at his feet. Still in darkness, it felt as though it was a bag with some heavy stones inside.

To while away his time, he started to throw those stones one by one, deep into the river and listened to the sound of water while it bounced. Just as there was one stone left, the rising sun spread its light on the place and it amazed him to see that last stone was in actual fact a very precious gem.

He did not realize the value of the gift God gave him until it was almost too late. Unfortunately for him he was not able to see those stones in the darkness. Would he have thrown them had he know the value of those precious stones? He was able to realize the value of his lost fortune only when the sun shone on the last stone bringing out its brilliance.




Similarly, life is a gift given to us by God. We live our lives in the darkness of ignorance, and never care to open the gifts that are given to us. Some people open their gifts when it is almost too late. It is then they see the light of wisdom, and realize the love of God, and the purpose of life.

We should always endeavor to open the gifts bestowed on us by God as early as possible in life. We can learn to enjoy life to the fullest afterwards.


Life is to enjoy, savor it

Not for getting tired


Life is a gift

If you could realize it and enjoy it.

Anger is an emotion that has evolved as a natural and healthy response to deal with factors encountered in situations that are typically frustrating, annoying, infuriating, irritating, threatening, unpleasant, or embarrassing.

An angered person’s emotion are often reflected in physiological responses such as increased heart rate and pupil dilation, facial expressions and body language that sometimes exhibit overt acts of aggression.

Uncontrolled anger can be damaging to both parties. Harsh words and actions which often regrettably cannot be undone are exchanged in the heat of anger. Often associated with the cause of the anger is, poor judgment and a lack of concentration on the task at hand which may lead to poor performance and deterioration.

Anger must be handled and released in the right way.

When things don't go the way a person wants, or may not understand to resolve a problem in reaching a goal, it might turn to becoming frustrated that can lead to anger.

One of my friends is always in the habit of losing his temper and flying off his handle at the drop of a hat. This often happens when something does not go the way of his expectations or if somebody does not act or perform according to his plan.

He came to me one day, asking me for a solution to this ever growing problem.

I told him, “my dear friend, whenever you get angry you please hammer a nail on a wooden board. If the next time, you could control your anger in a similar situation, pull out the nail from the board. You should try your best not to add more nails to the board. If you get too many nails, you should try to get them all out as soon as possible.”



This strategy worked out well for my friend. He came to me after a few weeks and thanked me for the tip and said, “I was ashamed when I saw too many nails on my board within a week and swore to get them all out. I had to work hard in controlling my anger. But when I finally learned how, it was rewarding to feel I could take a hold and control my anger. I have finally triumphed by being able to slowly get all the nails out of the board.”

I was happy that my method worked out very well for him. He showed me the board with no nails on it, but it had so many nail impressions.

Just so the angry words we use on others will remain ingrained in their hearts forever. Therefore let us not hurt any one with our angry words.

You may be a micro particle in this universe,
Yet you are all the world to me without recourse

Physically you are far away from me, being there
Yet happy to know that in my heart lies your soul here

If it be a secret joy when our bodies unite
It'll be the ultimate pleasure for our souls without contrite

I know not if I will enjoy this secret joy, dear
Nevertheless, I thank you for having given me the ultimate pleasure

If you will forgive me dear, I'll admit a fact here,
I tried to plug you out of my thoughts and memories forever,

Alas, the more I wished to forget,
The more you stubbornly stayed without regret,

I thought you made impressions only in my brain,
But the impressions dear, are deeply ingrained within my soul

I do not know if it is right to say "I love You"
But dear, I boldly declare "my soul needs you"

So come let us live a life of eternal bliss
Like carefree birds over the mist.

For once in my life, I truly believe I will finally find someone
who can completely turn my world around,

Someone whom I can freely tell my most intimate thoughts and desires
that I've kept locked in my soul and
she absorbs everything I say and
actually wants to hear more.

I will share with her my hopes for the future,
my dreams that may never come true,
goals that were achieved and yet to be achieved and
the many, many disappointments life has thrown at me.

When something wonderful happens,
I couldn't wait to tell her about it,
knowing she will share in my excitement.

Someone who will agonize with me when I am hurting or laugh with me when I make a fool of myself,

Someone who does not hurt my feelings
nor make me feel like I am not good enough, but rather

.Someone who will build me up and show me
the things about myself that make me feel special and
even more strong and successful.

There is never any pressure, embarrassment or
low of spirits, but only a quiet calmness
whenever she is around.

In her presence, I find quite contentment in just having her nearby.

I can be myself and not worry about what she will think of me
because she loves me for who I am.

Trivial things that seem insignificant to most people such as a song,
a moon, a dance, or just a simple walk become invaluable treasures
kept safe in my heart to cherish forever and carried to my coming births.

All the simple things we can do together become so exciting and interesting.
Colors seem brighter and more brilliant. She can make me feel young again.

Laughter seems part of daily life where before it was infrequent or didn't exist at all.

On every occasion and in everything I do,
she is always with me, in spirit. We transcend the limits of our mind,
and learn to be one together

Life seems completely different, exciting and worthwhile because of her.

I find strength in knowing I have a true love and a soul mate that loves and understands me.

And I find happiness and contentment in knowing that
I am also a part of her life.

ARE YOU THE ONE?