Preaching is always easy but to follow the good qualities in daily life is not that easy. You need to have a strong and mature mind to forgive the mistakes of others. Forgiving is a powerful tool which really helps to save a marriage, a love relationship, a partnership in a business, a friendship and many other relationships.

Are we willing and ready to forgive those who make mistakes and affect our happiness or progress in life? No, we are not at all ready to forgive. On the other hand, we often criticize their mistakes and destroy the relationships. It does not mean that we never forgive anybody.

We do forgive our children whatever mistakes they commit. Why is it possible for us to forgive the bigger mistakes of our children while we cannot forgive even the ordinary mistakes of others? It is because we consider our children as part of our body and soul. We are ready with excuses to forgive ourselves very easily even if we make great mistakes in our lives. Similarly, we can forgive our children, as they are a part of us.

We started to forgive our children when they slapped our cheeks with a shining smile when they were infants. We became used to forgive our children from that stage onwards.

The surprising fact is that we cannot forgive our spouses as we do our children. After all the spouse is the one whom we unite with body and soul. The spouse is the one who is going to be with us through thick and thin until the end of our life. Yet how many of us can forgive the better halves if they commit serious mistakes?

I shall put it in a very simple way now. You need abundant love with somebody to forgive him/her. Now my question is why many persons cannot forgive their spouses? Don’t they have real love in them? Or is it just the chemistry of lust only works between them? I will leave it to you to answer.



Let us begin our sincere love with the spouse, extend it with our children, parents, relatives, friends, others, animals and the Universe. Life will be more peaceful, joyous and meaningful then. Remember forgiving is the best giving.

Once there was an old man by the name of Sathyamurthy. His wife and he lived in an extremely small hut in a small village near Madurai. Though he was very poor, his heart was rich and warm ready to help others whenever there was a need.

His hut was very small and just about enough for the couple to sleep in.

One stormy night, just as the couple had retired to bed, they heard a knock at the door. Now, there were great flashes of lightning followed by loud peals of thunder enough to wake the dead. It had been raining heavily and continually for a long time. Who would be knocking in this weather; unless of course it was someone who wanted shelter for the night? Surmising so, he told his wife he wanted to help whomever the person outside the hut.

His wife said, “But dear, we cannot accommodate another person here, this hut is just adequate for the two of us to lie on the floor”.

He told her with a smile on his face, “honey, if there is space in your heart, there would be space here too. This hut is just adequate for both of us to lie on the floor; nevertheless, it is a big enough place for three persons to sit in.”

Hearing this, she reluctantly opened the door, and let the stranger in. The three sat on the floor, and after having some tea they continued to spend the night that way.

After an hour, there was another knock on the door. The old man in his kindness said, he wanted to see who was at the door bearing down on them in this inclement weather, and if needed to help him as best he could.

The stranger then said, “I respect your kind heart sir, but there is no space here”.

The old man repeated what he had earlier said to his wife, “If there is space in your heart my dear friend, there will be space here too”. He further added, “We are now sitting very comfortably, ok, let him come in and we will manage by sitting close to each other till morning.”

The other man too was invited inside, and they all sat very close to each other, resigned to spend the rest of the time, sharing in the warmth and love of the old man and leaving the cold outside to the stormy night.

After a while, they heard a sound at the door. Going out to see what caused it the old man was moved to see a donkey, struggling to beat the heavy rain by trying to shelter against the hut. The old man then wanted to help this poor animal to some comfort too.

However, when all others protested he said, “We can all stand and give space to the donkey, or if you do not like the idea, I will give my place to it and stand outside the hut.”

Hearing this, they were surprised at his kindness and all of them unanimously accepted his proposal.

There are always some kind-hearted persons living in almost every place.

I know a person who used to go to a hotel every Sunday. He would order the hotel to give food to the beggars sitting outside. He informed the hotel that he would meet the bill for whatever food they ate. He never exposed his identity to anyone. The beggars never knew who that kind person was, who offered them the best food in their lives. What a great man. He probably derives happiness by seeing them happy.

It is true that we cannot help others like Mother Teresa did. However, we can help a few people within our capacity.

Parse people practice a strange custom. They do not bury or cremate their dead bodies. They simply leave it to the vultures. They think the dead men will live on in the lives of the birds and help them to live.

Let us try to help others whenever we are able, to live a little bit better in this wonderful world. Though the help we can offer may be small, our hearts should always be big. The biggest happiness in life perhaps is making others happy.

A person who does not see it fit to help anyone is no better than a corpse.

We can donate our eyes and live on even after our death.

Have a great day with no storms in your life and let us leave our heart lobby open always.

In the present days both men and women think that, there is no need to say sorry to their spouses. This may be because the media has taught us so by way of fancy stories and so on. However, in real life saying sorry to their spouses helps a lot to strengthen a relationship between a man and woman. You need to help love grow for ever.

While dating both men and women, do not show their minus points to their partners. The reality comes to light only when they tie up in a marriage and start living together.



To err is human. When we do something, which offends our spouse we should say sorry with out the least hesitation. Love means surrendering everything to the partner and living totally for him/her. Love means that there is no need to express any ego where your spouse is concerned. Remember you need to help love grow for ever.

In fact, you can even go to that extent of saying sorry to your spouse when you are not wrong, if it will keep the peace, but at the same time explain your views subtly so he/ she realizes who is at fault. After all, if it is going to please your spouse and strengthen your relationship why not? If you can easily forgive your children for all their mistakes, why cannot you do that for your spouse who is going to be with you through thick and thin and till the end of your life.

Remember you need to help love grow for ever.


Love means a need to say sorry.

'How to get your ex boyfriend back?’. This is a million dollar question to many young females all over the world. It is also a very important issue as most of the females love to get their boy friends back to them. How to make this happen?

There are a few techniques with which you can get your boy friend back. First, do not mention anything that will damage his reputation to others, particularly to those who are common friends to both of you. If there is an occasion, greet him with a warm heart.

If some other guy is also interested in you, let your boy friend understand that you are in demand. However, you should not overdo this. You may work hard and come up in life; he will surrender to you very soon. You may improve your personality as well to attract him more.



You should wait patiently until he comes back to you. Patience and perseverance are the two important factors, which could get him back to you.Please don't try to find boy friend during this separation period. Never get close to any other male during this period of separation. If you have, some common friends you may use them to tell your boy friend that you are still in love with him. You should try to improve your personality and status during the period of separation. You must appear to be a new found treasure to your ex boy friend when he meets you after a long time.

You are governed by the planet Moon. Your life is not a steady one. You will have good fortunes and fame for some time and then there will be a fall. You will be back to fortunes again after some time. Your life will be with a lot of ups and downs. You are more interested in doing things for others than for yourself. You lose patience sometimes. You do something in haste and pay for that after. You won’t think of the consequences.

If you try some venture and think that it is not going to work out then you will stop it there itself and go for another work. You are always suspicious. You sometimes lose good opportunities because of this suspicious character. You won’t tell your problems to others. You think alone and decide without consulting others and, hence you will get only 50% success. You usually have belief on ghosts and ghosts’ stories. You will add more to the stories that you heard and tell others in such a way that all will get panicky. Women are more of this quality than men
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You often get depression. That is why you lose a few good opportunities in life. However sometimes you will be very confident and very positive. You enjoy nature in full. You are fond of swimming. You can win in swimming competitions. You may be short tempered. Hence they will get into certain problems in life often. You want to dress well and make up well to look attractive; No 2 Women are crazy about make up. They are never satisfied with their make ups. You often face financial problems. But somehow you will manage. You have beautiful eyes. Some of the No 2 people may have thick lips, Small ears, and Soft hair. Your belly is a little bigger when you get old. Yet you will look attractive.

You may get digestive problems, stomach disorders; some of No 2 people may get psychological problems too. Some of the no 2 people are prone to skin allergies. You may be very much fond of your mom. Women cannot bear sorrows. They will be upset. No 2 may have accidents in water. So you have to be careful. It is better to do business than to be employed. You can earn handsome income if you choose business as your career. You can shine well in cosmetics business, perfumery and similar products. You can travel around the globe and do imports and exports.

You can become a good poet. Some of no 2 people may become famous artists. You are more romantic. You will have more sex feelings. Mostly you will enjoy success in love. You will have a happy married life. Those who are born on 2nd, 11th, and 20th in the month of July are LUCKIER than the other No 2 born people. You are much influenced by moon. You can live with more fortunes and fame. Your lucky stone is pearl. Your lucky semi precious stone is moon stone. Favorite color green. Other favorite colors are white, whitish yellow, golden. Unlucky colors are .brown and black.




Your favorable dates are 2, 11, 20, 29, 1, 10, 19 and 28.If you want to start a new business you can do it on these lucky days so that you will be successful in your efforts. Lucky months are June and July You will enjoy success in whatever activities you do in these months. Unfavorable dates are 8, 17, and 26. Efforts put on these days will prove to be in vain and unsuccessful. Important events will take place at these ages (11,20,29,38,47,52,61,70,72,81,90).These years are memorable mixed with good and bad events.

However you will experience more of good events at these years. Your favorable direction is north. When you have to do important activities you may sit facing north. Travel to north brings success. You should try your best to be positive always to be more successful in life.

Once, there was a fisherman who lived in a small village close to a big river, where he used to fish every morning. As usual he went to the river one day, very early in the morning, much before dawn (he did not have a watch to know the time). Sitting on a rock, he waited for the sun to rise to start his day fishing. Moving his feet around, to get comfortable, he felt something at his feet. Still in darkness, it felt as though it was a bag with some heavy stones inside.

To while away his time, he started to throw those stones one by one, deep into the river and listened to the sound of water while it bounced. Just as there was one stone left, the rising sun spread its light on the place and it amazed him to see that last stone was in actual fact a very precious gem.

He did not realize the value of the gift God gave him until it was almost too late. Unfortunately for him he was not able to see those stones in the darkness. Would he have thrown them had he know the value of those precious stones? He was able to realize the value of his lost fortune only when the sun shone on the last stone bringing out its brilliance.




Similarly, life is a gift given to us by God. We live our lives in the darkness of ignorance, and never care to open the gifts that are given to us. Some people open their gifts when it is almost too late. It is then they see the light of wisdom, and realize the love of God, and the purpose of life.

We should always endeavor to open the gifts bestowed on us by God as early as possible in life. We can learn to enjoy life to the fullest afterwards.


Life is to enjoy, savor it

Not for getting tired


Life is a gift

If you could realize it and enjoy it.

You may be a micro particle in this universe,
Yet you are all the world to me without recourse

Physically you are far away from me, being there
Yet happy to know that in my heart lies your soul here

If it be a secret joy when our bodies unite
It'll be the ultimate pleasure for our souls without contrite

I know not if I will enjoy this secret joy, dear
Nevertheless, I thank you for having given me the ultimate pleasure

If you will forgive me dear, I'll admit a fact here,
I tried to plug you out of my thoughts and memories forever,

Alas, the more I wished to forget,
The more you stubbornly stayed without regret,

I thought you made impressions only in my brain,
But the impressions dear, are deeply ingrained within my soul

I do not know if it is right to say "I love You"
But dear, I boldly declare "my soul needs you"

So come let us live a life of eternal bliss
Like carefree birds over the mist.

In all the Indian films you will find at least six songs. You can’t find an Indian film without songs. It has a long history. The art of drama (play) has been in existence in India for many thousands of years. In olden days they used to tell a story in song.

It is not surprising that when the film industry was introduced to India, they continued to tell the story in the same drama style. It is surprising to note that a few decades ago in Indian cinema, there were as much as thirty songs or more in a few of the films.

This style of telling a story gradually changed. Presently there are about six songs in a film and usually the hero and the heroine sing songs in the love scenes. The songs are usually sung by prominent songsters and the actors and actresses just give lip movements. Kissing on the lips is not allowed in Indian movies. In reality no Indian sings songs in demonstrating his love life.

Nevertheless, the Indian film songs are melodious and quite enjoyable to listen. Some songs in films are presented so beautifully that we can watch those scenes and listen to the songs any number of times (just like watching “bad’ of Michael Jackson)





You will find one such great song video under; India had produced great music directors like S.D. Burman, R.D. Burman in the past. Some of the prominent music directors who dominate the Indian cinema currently are A.R. Rehman, Ilaya Raaja and Haris Jeyaraj. I am sure you will agree with me that you will love Indian music and Indian film songs.

If you cannot express your love for me, Come closer,
I will make your eyes tell the love to me,

If you want me to sing a song,Come closer;
let me do it for you and you alone,

If you want to dance to a rocking music,
Come closer, let us do it and make the music proud,


If you want to close your eyes to enjoy the passion of love,
Come closer opening your seeking lips for the endless coupling now,

If you want to eat the most delicious dish,
Come closer let me serve it direct into your mouth,

If you want the ultimate pleasure of life,
Come closer let me blanket you to give the best,

If you want the most pleasant sleep of peace,
Come closer, sleep on my chest and rest.

Come closer , my dear,
if you want my love.