
Those who are born on 8th/17th/26th are called the no 8 people.
Natives are governed by Saturn. It is difficult to understand their character. They may behave strangely sometimes. Therefore they may appear ruthless and merciless. But they are truly good people. They always have the desire to help others. They want to help those who are really in need.
They should be careful that they don’t help cheating persons. They may be attracted towards such people. If somebody cheats them, they will get highly distressed. They will try to take revenge till the end. They can’t forget those who harm them. They will wait to avenge them. Similarly they won’t forget those who helped them. They will wait for the chance to help them. They are like judges. They will definitely want to punish those who err.
They give respect to elders, the educated and intelligent people. Generally they want to live in peace. But life will not let them live so. They will get into some problems or other many times in life. They are not cowards. They don’t like fights, yet they will not give up a fight until they win .If their friends and relatives fight, they will go forward and pacify them. They will achieve what they want. For that they will pay any cost. They want to succeed well in life. They will make continuous efforts for it though success does not come to them that easily.
Sudden fall in life is inevitable though they will mange it and come back again with their sheer hard work. Their success will be great, just like their failures too, very big. If important events take place in the years 4, 8, 13, 17, 22, 26 and 31, it will be too miserable years for them. They will not hesitate to work hard. They will be happy to do so. If they get involved in work, they will do it with interest and perfection. They want to achieve a lot in life though they can only achieve a little. Some of his efforts will be stopped halfway.
Generally they love arts. They often face financial difficulties. However they will manage it somehow. Their later part (half) will be more successful. They may live with all comforts after middle age. Nervous weakness, skin problems and stomach pains may bother them, even indigestion. They can shine well in industries related to coal, iron, and building materials. They may even earn well in archeology and agriculture. They will have a happy and peaceful married life.
They will get a good spouse. Their children will be good. Their mind is full of loving feelings. But their efforts of love always end in failures. They won’t bother much about it. Those born on 8th January, 17th, 26th January, 8th, 17th February and 26th December are luckier. The will be blessed with greater fortunes. Lucky stone is blue sapphire. Black is their lucky color.
Lucky days, 1, 3, 5, 6, 10, 12, 14, 15, 19, 21, 23, 24, 28 and 30 are unlucky days. The years 4, 8, 13, 17, 22, 26 and 31, and 8, 17, 26, 35, 44, 53, 62,71,80,89 are unforgettable years in their lives. Favorable directions are south and south east. Most of them are of average height. They look dark and very rarely fair. They often have Wide eye brows, Sharp eyes, and Tough hard hair. Strong hands but thin legs. The specialties of these 8 people are, if they are successful it will be a very big success. Similarly are the failures.
ALL ABOUT NO 1 PEOPLE
Are you born on 8th/17th/26th, then this blog is for you
by vijayanths | 5:34 AM in Blue sapphire, cheating, fortune, friends, gem stones, help, judges, life, love, lucky stones, numerology, peace, revenge, saturn, spouse, success | comments (0)
Where has the spark of love gone?
by vijayanths | 8:21 AM in animals, children, couple, friends, god, love, marriage, old, perfect, plants, relationships, spouse, universe, woman | comments (0)

During the period of dating and a few years of marriage you think you are in real love with your partner. You think that you are both made for each other and that you are the perfect couple in the world. After a few years have gone by, you may have children by then and become more responsible and sensible. Nevertheless something is missing. Yes, the spark of love has disappeared. Why?
Real love means living for each other without any expectations from him/her. But in real life there seems to be no real love. We soon get attracted to physical elements and other social factors and chase after financial status, character building, and education and so on.
However after years have gone by after marriage you come to realize that your partner is not living up to your expectations.
There is yet another selfish factor which affects a relationship. We expect our partner to be the perfect person, though we do not try to be perfect ourselves.
There was a man who wanted to marry a perfect woman. He went in search of her from east to west and north and south across his country until he was seventy years old.
One of his friends asked him whether he did not meet his perfect woman all these years. He told him that he saw a perfect woman only once. His friend instantly asked him why he did not marry her then. He replied, “She wanted to marry a perfect man”
If you are successful in finding real love with your spouse then you can extend this love to your children, relatives, friends, other people, animals, plants and finally the Universe, that is God.
So, my dear friends, its quite simple, cultivate a close relationship with your spouse and share real love for it is the first step to reach God.
CAN A LOVE LAST FOR A LIFE TIME
Can a love last for a life time?
by vijayanths | 6:47 AM in best, couple, enjoy, forgive, happy, journey, life, love, lucky, lust, partner, sacrifice, spouse, time, travel | comments (0)

Yes, of course if you are really going to work at it .The initial part of a relationship is always very interesting and extremely joyous.
You won’t be able to realize the shortcomings of your partner during that period. According to researchers, this fairy tale might exist for about one and half years.
Then both will start living in reality and will be able to understand the flaws of the partner.
Lust rules the first one and half year of your life. Thereafter you need to start loving your partner. You have to accept him/her as he/she is and move on. You should learn to sacrifice for your partner. You should forgive and forget his/her mistakes.
Please remember your spouse is the one who is going to travel along with you in life’s journey through thick and thin to the last. Your spouse should be your best friend who should last till the end.
I have seen some couples having the spark of love between them till the end. They are really great and lucky.
What else can make you happy when you have someone who is there always for you to love and care for?
Forgiving Is the Best Giving
by vijayanths | 10:46 AM in best, body, children, divine love, forgive, life, lust, relationships, soul mate, spouse, universe | comments (0)

Preaching is always easy but to follow the good qualities in daily life is not that easy. You need to have a strong and mature mind to forgive the mistakes of others. Forgiving is a powerful tool which really helps to save a marriage, a love relationship, a partnership in a business, a friendship and many other relationships.
Are we willing and ready to forgive those who make mistakes and affect our happiness or progress in life? No, we are not at all ready to forgive. On the other hand, we often criticize their mistakes and destroy the relationships. It does not mean that we never forgive anybody.
We do forgive our children whatever mistakes they commit. Why is it possible for us to forgive the bigger mistakes of our children while we cannot forgive even the ordinary mistakes of others? It is because we consider our children as part of our body and soul. We are ready with excuses to forgive ourselves very easily even if we make great mistakes in our lives. Similarly, we can forgive our children, as they are a part of us.
We started to forgive our children when they slapped our cheeks with a shining smile when they were infants. We became used to forgive our children from that stage onwards.
The surprising fact is that we cannot forgive our spouses as we do our children. After all the spouse is the one whom we unite with body and soul. The spouse is the one who is going to be with us through thick and thin until the end of our life. Yet how many of us can forgive the better halves if they commit serious mistakes?
I shall put it in a very simple way now. You need abundant love with somebody to forgive him/her. Now my question is why many persons cannot forgive their spouses? Don’t they have real love in them? Or is it just the chemistry of lust only works between them? I will leave it to you to answer.
Let us begin our sincere love with the spouse, extend it with our children, parents, relatives, friends, others, animals and the Universe. Life will be more peaceful, joyous and meaningful then. Remember forgiving is the best giving.
Love means a need to say sorry
by vijayanths | 6:35 AM in anger management, divine love, end, ever, help love, life, media, mistakes, relationships, remember, sorry, spouse, views, woman | comments (0)

In the present days both men and women think that, there is no need to say sorry to their spouses. This may be because the media has taught us so by way of fancy stories and so on. However, in real life saying sorry to their spouses helps a lot to strengthen a relationship between a man and woman. You need to help love grow for ever.
While dating both men and women, do not show their minus points to their partners. The reality comes to light only when they tie up in a marriage and start living together.
To err is human. When we do something, which offends our spouse we should say sorry with out the least hesitation. Love means surrendering everything to the partner and living totally for him/her. Love means that there is no need to express any ego where your spouse is concerned. Remember you need to help love grow for ever.
In fact, you can even go to that extent of saying sorry to your spouse when you are not wrong, if it will keep the peace, but at the same time explain your views subtly so he/ she realizes who is at fault. After all, if it is going to please your spouse and strengthen your relationship why not? If you can easily forgive your children for all their mistakes, why cannot you do that for your spouse who is going to be with you through thick and thin and till the end of your life.
Remember you need to help love grow for ever.
Love means a need to say sorry.
Is Woman Really the Weaker Sex?
by vijayanths | 5:09 AM in canadian, death, doctor, lady, life, live, london, marriage, partners, separation, sex, spouse, weaker, wife, woman | comments (0)

A London doctor recently conducted a research about the impact of death on the spouse. He did this research with 11454 couples who had insured with a Canadian. It revealed that women could live longer after the death of their spouses than men. Surprising, is it not?
Men cannot bear the death of their spouses. Therefore they die soon after the death of their women mostly within a year of separation. Women are able to live longer after the death of their life partners.
Among 11454 couples 454 couples died due to shock on hearing the death of the partner. 1048 wives continued to live after the death of their men. But only 254 men could live after the death of their women.
Is woman a weaker sex? Woman may be weaker in her bodily strength but stronger in her mind. The surprising factor is that woman has a capacity for stronger emotional love for her partner. Women are just great.