We often hear people say,” If I had not married I will be happy now.” Every coin has two sides. There are some plus points and some minus points for everything.


But how long can you be happy with this freedom? How long can you go to the bar and drink? Or have some other fun? The more fun you have the more dissatisfaction or worry you will get after the so-called fun. Eventually you will feel like living in a vacuum.

Marriage of course means more responsibilities and burdens. Yes, it is true. You may be worried when your child runs a high temperature. You may find it difficult to raise funds for your children’s education. You may have to work hard to give them good education. You will have to help them find a good job. You will have to get them married to suitable life partners. In a married life, you have love, care, responsibilities and above all peace and happiness.

Therefore, dear bachelor friends, I suggest you to make a mistake, a sweet mistake called marriage, but only once. OK?

Once, there was a fisherman who lived in a small village close to a big river, where he used to fish every morning. As usual he went to the river one day, very early in the morning, much before dawn (he did not have a watch to know the time). Sitting on a rock, he waited for the sun to rise to start his day fishing. Moving his feet around, to get comfortable, he felt something at his feet. Still in darkness, it felt as though it was a bag with some heavy stones inside.

To while away his time, he started to throw those stones one by one, deep into the river and listened to the sound of water while it bounced. Just as there was one stone left, the rising sun spread its light on the place and it amazed him to see that last stone was in actual fact a very precious gem.

He did not realize the value of the gift God gave him until it was almost too late. Unfortunately for him he was not able to see those stones in the darkness. Would he have thrown them had he know the value of those precious stones? He was able to realize the value of his lost fortune only when the sun shone on the last stone bringing out its brilliance.




Similarly, life is a gift given to us by God. We live our lives in the darkness of ignorance, and never care to open the gifts that are given to us. Some people open their gifts when it is almost too late. It is then they see the light of wisdom, and realize the love of God, and the purpose of life.

We should always endeavor to open the gifts bestowed on us by God as early as possible in life. We can learn to enjoy life to the fullest afterwards.


Life is to enjoy, savor it

Not for getting tired


Life is a gift

If you could realize it and enjoy it.

For once in my life, I truly believe I will finally find someone
who can completely turn my world around,

Someone whom I can freely tell my most intimate thoughts and desires
that I've kept locked in my soul and
she absorbs everything I say and
actually wants to hear more.

I will share with her my hopes for the future,
my dreams that may never come true,
goals that were achieved and yet to be achieved and
the many, many disappointments life has thrown at me.

When something wonderful happens,
I couldn't wait to tell her about it,
knowing she will share in my excitement.

Someone who will agonize with me when I am hurting or laugh with me when I make a fool of myself,

Someone who does not hurt my feelings
nor make me feel like I am not good enough, but rather

.Someone who will build me up and show me
the things about myself that make me feel special and
even more strong and successful.

There is never any pressure, embarrassment or
low of spirits, but only a quiet calmness
whenever she is around.

In her presence, I find quite contentment in just having her nearby.

I can be myself and not worry about what she will think of me
because she loves me for who I am.

Trivial things that seem insignificant to most people such as a song,
a moon, a dance, or just a simple walk become invaluable treasures
kept safe in my heart to cherish forever and carried to my coming births.

All the simple things we can do together become so exciting and interesting.
Colors seem brighter and more brilliant. She can make me feel young again.

Laughter seems part of daily life where before it was infrequent or didn't exist at all.

On every occasion and in everything I do,
she is always with me, in spirit. We transcend the limits of our mind,
and learn to be one together

Life seems completely different, exciting and worthwhile because of her.

I find strength in knowing I have a true love and a soul mate that loves and understands me.

And I find happiness and contentment in knowing that
I am also a part of her life.

ARE YOU THE ONE?